Monday, January 10, 2011

the empty nest


The last one has gone and the house is quiet-er. Not that she makes much noise when she is here but it just seems so empty when she leaves. I am a lucky mom! My kids all really like each other and they like coming home to us. Blessed would probably be a better word choice but isn't it all the same in the end? I was compiling a little list in my head while walking the dog this morning. It goes like this -
How I know the kids have gone:
1. all the blankets in the den are folded and piled neatly in the corner
2. i can once again see the floors in their room
3. there is milk in the jug
4. it takes 2 days to fill the dishwasher
5. I have to pick up towels off the floor and their beds are made
6. there are no cars in the driveway or the street out front
7. i start planning meals around vegetables instead of meat
8. no one eats bread or lunchmeat
9. i don't need to run to the grocery or target every other day
10. i have control of the remote
11. the dog and I have a lot to talk about



Thank you God for my precious children!
Protect them and guide them and keep them close to you! Amen.

enough said!
besides ...they'll be back before I know it!

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Feeling like a Super Hero


There was a a knock on my door late yesterday afternoon. When I answered the door I was pleased to see my young friend and neighbor from across the street with a bag in her hand. She was wondering if "Aunt" Mary could fix a doll that belonged to her friend. Well of course, Aunt Mary would at least take a look at it. Turns out to be a Mrs Beasley doll from long ago in very poor shape. Mrs Beasley is almost torn in half - she's either been very well loved or the dog has had a turn with her. I should really say no but when a little girl tells a friend that she knows Aunt Mary can fix it well then Aunt Mary had better get busy and figure out how to do it! So wish me luck...this super hero is off to save Mrs. Beasley.........

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

2011 has begun

and I started it with a head cold! A grand mess and all "I want to do is sleep type cold" but I've gone to work and continued on to the best of my ability. So I really can't tell you if 2011 has been anything interesting or not. I did pick a word for the year after reading the idea on several different blogs. Sort of an intentional way of looking at situations and day to day events through a different lens. I am not going to tell you my word yet but I will tell you that the Scripture verse I chose to go with it is this : I am a new creation, the old has gone, the new is here (my liberal paraphrase of 2 Corinthians 5:17) Eventually my word will evolve into ideas and journal prompts and pictures. If you google one little word you will find some blogs and even on line classes referring to the idea of using one word to sum up your goals or what you want for yourself in the new year. So if you chose a word what what it be?
Slowly our family has been drifting back to their lives and responsibilities. Nen is back to school with her hyper busy 2nd and 3rd graders - the husband gets to have a few more weeks to chill...oh I mean work, Mike is off on a retreat in the woods of PA with his Fellowship program (hope he's in a warm cabin) - maybe that will keep his mind off of being separated from his girl for 10 more weeks, the only one left at home is Kayla but only for a few more days and she has finally gotten off her duff and started doing a few things and seeing friends. I don't blame her - break is a good time to catch up on sleep and movies and baking...
JohnDear is back to work and back to coaching Varsity Girls Basketball and back to being gone more than home. I am adding more hours to my work schedule so I guess soon that is what I might say about me too.
So there's our start to 2011. I took the ornaments off the tree today (Step One) and looked at the Christmas cards again - still sitting ready with no envelopes addressed. and JUST DO IT screaming in my head. And started organizing pictures in photo software - always the beginning of inspiration for the next project. will let you know soon what that will be.
Happy New Year friends!

Friday, December 31, 2010

last post of the year


Hard to believe 2010 is done and 2011 looms on the horizon....a wide open, ready to be experienced and precious gift. This last week has been busy for everyone with holidays and vacations and for us we also added in an anniversary celebration (27 years) and experienced the death of two loved ones. Quite a week of highs and lows. I was reflecting on the past year and all that entailed and realized it has been a while since we welcomed a new year from our own home. Last year we were in MO with family and this year we will be in New Jersey with family. My first resolution of 2011 is to celebrate New Years Eve at home. So there, you've heard it and seen it and now you can hold me accountable to it. As much as I love family there is no place like home! I wonder what else the new year holds. I know I can expect more hours at work..starting next week...and I have to believe this is a good thing. I am grateful for it and I like my job. I just know that something will have to be neglected in order to accomplish it. I also have plans to open up an ETSY shop. I am super excited and have been working with my girls on plans for it. My Mary and Bright show was successful way beyond my imagination so I believe it is the right time to gain more exposure. I'll keep up with my photography and with my Christian Paper Artists group so I think I may be quite busy in the crafty department. I have a plan to read through the entire Bible cover to cover over the year. It takes dedication and I admit I have never completely reached this goal but I am motivated and have determined that if I can manage four chapters a day I will get there with time to spare. I do love to see God's plan fall into place and be reminded of his hand over the course of History. It makes total sense to me to keep that as a perspective for a new year. the challenge is to keep that perspective mid year and end year and when busy-ness threatens to overwhelm. Honestly sometimes I would rather sleep! So there's the challenge - care to join me? My other loves include cooking and baking so I am sure there will be some adventures along the way - although it does get hard to be motivated to cook for two. But I want to try to cook something new out of a different cookbook each week. I told myself no new ones until I have done that and I have also wanted to write my own so maybe this is the year. Wow - that is a lot of challenges already for the new year so I guess I better stop typing or I will be in BIG trouble with all I want to do. Enjoy the remainder of 2010 and my advice for you AND me in 2011 is .... Take it One Day at a Time!

Monday, December 27, 2010

Big Dreams.....and Baby Steps

Our little farm project is now 2 years old. In many ways it feels like we haven't accomplished anything, but yet in other ways we have gotten quite a lot done. We certainly don't want to lose the place but the reality is some things have got to change. And speaking of change....this blog is undergoing a few changes in the new year. I will no longer focus only on our farm adventures but will be adding over time our "city" adventures as well. I know that I have already started to add posts that are not related to the farm and it will be a continuation of that along with daily living thoughts and actions; sort of a Town Mouse/Country Mouse approach to life. I hope you will stick with me and that what I say is of interest and I hope that you will become a "follower" if you are not already. But in the end I write mostly for me....a journal of life, a recording of events and thoughts of everyday living that makes me the girl I am, whether it be a farm girl or a city girl. And if it seems that my ramblings are just a carbon copy of what others are doing, oh well, at least we are all having our say. So.......
REFLECTIONS on what the farm has taught us over the last two years
1. It is good to have dreams. When we were married 27 years ago we lived in a little cottage on the top of Lookout Mountain, GA. It had 2 bedrooms and one main living area heated by a wood stove. My new husband was kind enough to get an electric heater for the bathroom, but other than that it was a pretty rustic beginning. We had a beautiful view of a pond and horses and a little mountain farm and we would sit on our front porch and say "Someday, we'll have this..."
2. God speaks through nature. The 20 acres of woods on our property are full of stories. Whether it be civil war soldiers or sharecroppers or raising a family in the old farmhouse, many tales are told by a long walk about the property. We've done it many times in every season and it never fails to remind us of our creator. Listening to the winds whisper in the oaks, or the acorns dropping loudly to the ground, the gurgling stream that at time rushes by swollen and full, all these point us to the One who created this field of wonders for us.
3. Peace and Solitude is a Good thing. Every time we turn into the driveway of our property you can feel the peace of country calling our name. It never fails to amaze me that one can sit on the porch or on a grassy knoll and feel the peace surround. Solitude in the woods is welcome. If you walk quietly and slowly you will notice so many things - perhaps it is the many shapes of an acorn and the way they look like little men of different races, perhaps it is the deer that suddenly leaps in front of your path, or maybe it is the tiny shoots of leaves that have been left alone long enough to form new growth or the sounds of crunching leaves or whispering winds or warning calls from unidentified birds. Peace and Solitude are good things!
4. To work the Earth is just that - Work, hard sweaty labor. We laugh at our audacity to think we could grow anything, much less an entire garden of flowers and vegetables. How the neighboring farmers must chuckle as they drive passed the "city folks" place. You can't garden long distance! but it doesn't stop us from trying and every little success is enough to get us excited for future endeavors. The apple orchard waits - full of promise that it will provide more apples than we know what to do with them. But first we learn how to care for the trees, how to prune and how pick, and just how many ways an apple can be used is worth exploring.
5. There is an enterprise around every corner. It all started with an idea. Lynnette wanted candle holders for her wedding made from the oak trees - just something she had seen in a DIY magazine. So we set about to recreate it and it was a hit. We sold all remaining sets and have people asking for more. It is the start of a small cottage industry that we are slowly starting. We added coasters to the offering and again - all are gone and more are ordered. After researching the web we begin to list the many items that we could easily supply by using ingredients found on the farm. A business plan begins to form....stay tuned
6. Photography is Big business. Everybody wants to be a photographer these days and cameras are designed to point and shoot your way to fame (well maybe fame is pushing it....haha) But when you have something as beautiful as nature in all its seasons to photograph you are a lucky soul indeed. For even in its own quietness the beauty of the season can't be captured or expressed by even the best of the best, but we can view it with our eyes whenever we please.
7. Seasons have unique distinctions. Even as the beauty of nature unfolds from spring to summer to fall to winter so the life of the farm has seasons of history and a legacy for many periods of history. What was once a battlefield, became a 200 acre farm with a sharecroppers cabin still in place, the tobbacy barn belonged to the big house on the hill that is still filled with pieces of history left behind; old books and shoes and jars of something grandma canned many many years ago. The pens that held in cattle and goats now hold in quietness, waiting for the characters of what will come next. The sheds and barns once filled with grain and sustenance and equipment now hold the trash of another generation. And stories abound..who lived here, who worked here, who raised a family here? all stories waiting to be told.
Yes we have learned a lot from the little farm in two short years. And we have many lessons yet to learn, an education at our fingertips waiting for just the right time to take the next step towards the next chapter in the legacy of the little farm.

Thursday, December 23, 2010

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

Here's our Christmas letter...and the reason our little farm didn't get much attention this year. I may rename my blog....Big Dreams and Baby Steps. I trust that someday somewhere somehow all our dreams will come true and in the meantime...God is good...all the time!

2010 Top Ten

10. God is Good…All the Time and we are thankful for His care over us during another busy and challenging year. He continues to provide for ALL of our needs and blesses us “above and beyond.”

9. Wedding Bells…On August 21, Lynnette was married to Andrew Fields in a beautiful outdoor wedding ceremony surrounded by those we love. They live close by; Andrew is finishing up his studies at George Mason University and Lynnette is in her 3rd year of teaching at Lorien Wood School.

8. Graduation…After seven years of interrupted study including two overseas deployments with the US Army Reserves, Mike graduated with Honors and received a Finance Degree from Grove City College in May. He is currently serving in a Fellowship program at McLean Presbyterian Church which includes seminary study, an internship at the SEC in downtown DC and ministry at the church. When not involved in one of those he is spending time with his sweetheart, Laura.

7. New Job…Mary began work in November at our local Chiropractor’s office as a therapist. I love my job and the fact that it is only 5 minutes from home is a HUGE bonus.

6. In Sickness and in health…Kayla had a challenging year health wise with a grand mal seizure in May and countless medical tests over the summer but we are happy to report that in November she was given the “all clear” signal and reissued her driver’s license. God was kind to provide transportation to her summer job and friends who kept her sane and grounded. But she is sure is glad to be back to normal. She continues her studies at Covenant College in GA.

5. Full Nest… For the first time in 8 years and probably for the last time all three kids lived at home this summer. It was this mother’s treasure and one I will keep close to my heart.

4. On the Go…all of us were here, there and everywhere and we are so blessed to have safely navigated yet again busy highways and byways and airspace.

3. Farm…Due to economic issues we did not get any big projects underway but we did have a garden and enjoyed the time we spent relaxing at our getaway. Our adventures are recorded (with pictures) at http://farmerinthemaking.blogspot.com if you’d like to hear the rest of the story.

2. CSA…stands for community supported agriculture and is a model for local sustainable and organic farming. We had a share in a local farm this summer and in exchange for a basket of fresh produce every week we worked several hours each month (May-Sept) on the farm. We learned a lot and experimented with many new foods – thoroughly enjoying the experience.

1. 50 years – Way back in the beginning of 2010 (March 17 to be exact) we celebrated John’s 50th birthday. We are thankful for an awesome husband, father, brother, son, and friend and spent a fun weekend in DC celebrating him.

It’s been a grand year….God is good…All the time! Blessings to you in 2011!

Monday, December 6, 2010

Farmgirl gets crafty - "Mary & Bright"



Forgive my lack of blogging but haven't been to the farm much lately. Had to go back to work and although having a set schedule helps keep me organized it does take up my free time too. But it is a good job and good people and good hours and a paycheck so no complaints from me. About the time I got the job I also decided to do a Holiday show at my home. Mostly to use up older craft supplies so I could justify purchasing new ones (ha) but also due to inspiration from the Country Living Fair. I can do this and I do that seemed to be a common theme so out came the paper and the glue gun and the fabric scraps and every available moment was spent crafting. The event was this past weekend and although attendance was low the sales were good and I exceeded my goal so I am happy. It was also an opportunity to see friends that I hadn't had the chance to see in a while and the visits were the best part.
Johndear went down to the farm solo yesterday to winterize the pipes in the trailer. Can't lose that trailer yet - still need a real house built and the economy refuses to cooperate. He said there was snow and it was pretty and I was sad that I did not go along and take the camera but I did have a grand day with no. 1 son keeping me company and watching football. He is missing his girlfriend who is off doing Navy stuff so his momma was happy to keep him company or was it the other way around. Anyway, it was a nice day,
Now it is time to get organized and ready for Christmas. My budget is the cash from my show so now that I have something to work with I shall have to get creative. I will be making most of our gifts this year and the sewing machine will get used. But that is all I can say because maybe just maybe my kids read this blog - Ha, fat chance. So enjoy the week ahead and I will keep you posted on my progress.
Pictures above include (L-r) wreaths, banners and "snow cones", scherenschnitte ornaments, oak candle holders (from the farm), paper music wreath, cutesy banners for windows and doorways, and of course photo note cards. The sets included four seasons from the farm which were my personal favorites. Another big seller were the oak coasters - will have to get a picture to post soon.
"Mary Christmas"